When two Virgos meet and fall in love, they create a sweet, gentle, quiet, and devoted couple. Each is concerned about the other's welfare, is willing to sacrifice for the other, and puts their all into the relationship. Being in love brings out the very best Virgo traits.
Virgo Meets Virgo
Virgos tend to loathe the dating and the bar scene so when two Virgos meet, it's most likely to be through work or a mutual acquaintance who believes they'll click. The first few dates might be awkward because Virgos need time to open up. However, after beginning to interact, they will be fascinated and awed they have found someone so easy to be around.
A Quiet Introverted Couple
There's a magnetism between a couple whose suns are in the same sign. When two typical Virgos come together, it can feel as if each has found their missing piece, their soul mate, someone who truly gets their "quirky" Virgo ways. As the relationship grows, two Virgos will begin to cocoon.
Even while dating a Virgo couple will:
- Spend quiet nights and weekends at one of their homes, ordering takeout, watching movies, sitting side-by-side reading, and having meaningful conversations.
- Share low key activities, like taking in a museum, going for nature walks, or reading on the beach.
- Spend time near each other while doing their own thing.
Few things are as enjoyable to a Virgo as sitting quietly with their thoughts or a good book and when this is paired with sharing what they enjoy with someone they love and who enjoys the same, it's pure bliss.
Marriage
While others might believe a Virgo couple has a boring marriage, they do need the same things to be happily married. They are two hard workers who need a simple home life and a marriage that allows for solitude combined with togetherness. Because both need the same things in a marriage it's easy for each to give the other what they need.
- Plenty of time to wind down, to process, and think
- Meaningful conversations and limited small talk
- Companionable silence
- Time for their individual hobbies and interests
- A quiet space that's all their own
- Independence
As Lovers
Virgos are demure, patient, and attentive lovers who are generous, thoughtful, and sensual. Though two Virgos are sensual in each other's arms; they are alike in that they and are not spontaneous or adventurous lovers. Their time for sexual intimacy will be penciled in, planned, and routine. There will be few surprises. While this might seem a bit weird and choreographed to some, a Virgo couple likes it this way.
Relationship Issues
When two same sun sign individuals are together for a while and the bloom of new love fades, it can actually be the ways in which they so much alike that will cause problems in their relationship.
High Anxiety
As cool, calm, and quiet as a Virgo might seem they do have a darker side. When a one Virgo is worried, anxious, critical, fussy, or starts complaining, which they are prone to do, they can feed their Virgo partner's worries and anxieties, and squabbles begin over the smallest of things. At its worst, a Virgo/Virgo coupling can create a high anxiety relationship, in which two perfectionists begin to criticize and pick at one another and create hurts that can eventually destroy the wonderful potential that brought them together.
Isolation
When a Virgo forms a relationship with another Virgo, they no longer feel the urge or motivation to go out and socialize. This can place them in an isolated bubble, where they rarely if ever go out and see their friends. It's important for them to remember to pencil in time to experience new things and take part in activities that they once treasure, both independently and as a couple.
Conflict
Virgos tend to sweep conflict under the rug and shy away from disagreements. Instead, they bottle up their feelings until they eventually explode. Mature Virgo/Virgo couples know that although arguing and disagreeing takes them out of their comfort zones, they must have them in order to keep their relationship healthy.
Making the Relationship Work
One of the strongest points of A Virgo/Virgo relationship is open and honest communication, and a shared need to make their relationship work perfectly. The reasoning and analytical abilities of two Virgos working together can usually fix any problems and issues that arise. This pairing can certainly make for a healthy relationship if both are willing to communicate and work through their relationship challenges and struggles.
Virgo and Virgo
Every Virgo is a different person based on the time, date and place of their births. However, when two Virgos come together, they do share a similar temperament and way of viewing the world that seems to allow intimacy to blossom. A Virgo/Virgo match is certainly one with marriage potential, if both are committed to the relationship, don't give too much weight to petty squabbles, and keep their doubts and worries to a minimum.
