We all know that guy... the one who seems to have some serious commitment issues. Yeah. That one. There's a good chance he's a Sagittarius.
Affectionately known as the bachelors of the zodiac, Sagittarius men hate being tied down. They're seekers, philosophers, idealists, comics, and grand adventurers whose lives are about wisdom, beauty, and fun. A Sagittarius guy is always on the move, seeing new places and meeting new people — they have friends galore. So if he's so hard to get, how do you attract a Sagittarius man? We have answers that can help.
What Attracts a Sagittarian Man
Sagittarius men are attracted to independent free spirits who are friendly, intelligent, playful, challenging, and courageous enough to join him on his limitless adventures — intellectually, metaphorically, and physically.
Before capturing a Sagittarius guy's heart, you'll need to catch his attention for more than a moment. This isn't as easy as it sounds. Remember that he's always on the move and can quickly become bored and move on from someone who doesn't intrigue and challenge him. A Sagittarius man is driven by the passion of the moment. So to win over a Sagittarius man, you first have to get his attention.
- Use whatever physical assets you have to intrigue him. Play up your eyes, dress to entice — but stay true to your personal style — and smile if you're feeling it.
- A Sagittarius man likes to talk. Still, don't become too deeply immersed in his conversational abilities. Intrigue him; don't engage him fully. Leave things unsaid and questions unanswered, so he has something to ponder.
- Let your attention drift and challenge a Sagittarius man to vie for your attention.
How to Attract a Sagittarian Man
If you've made it past the first step and you now have his attention, you're doing a lot better than many. But capturing a Sagittarius man's attention is one thing. Dating a Sagittarius man and capturing his heart is quite another.
1. Be Mysterious
A Sagittarius man needs to feel that getting to know you is akin to solving a great mystery. Reveal yourself in layers such that he never feels he knows you thoroughly. He'll appreciate the "you" he sees and knows and will always be fascinated and wonder about the side he can't see.
2. Have a Sense of Humor
A good sense of humor is an essential key to a Sagittarius guy's heart. He has a sense of humor that's often witty and ridiculous. He can find something humorous in most situations. So, laugh with him and don't be afraid to laugh at him, because he'll probably be laughing at you.
3. Be a Good Audience
Never try to dominate a conversation — be willing to listen. Listen a little more than you talk. A Sagittarius guy loves to talk, and he's thrilled if you give him an appreciative audience.
4. Don't Spoil His Fun
Don't be needy, clingy, jealous, controlling, or demanding. A Sagittarius man is a friendly guy who wants to be out and about as much as possible, so don't spoil his fun. Attempting to harness a free-spirited Sagittarius man will get you nowhere.
5. Challenge Him
Only sometimes, be available. A Sagittarius man thrives on the challenge of the chase. If you're too available, compliant, and agreeable, you're more likely to inspire boredom than awe. Embrace your free spirit and give him plenty of room to breathe and time to wonder and long for you.
6. Go, Do, and Travel With Him
A Sagittarius man thrives on adventure, and his partner is going to need to not only be able to hang but also be as adventurous as he is. He's a free-spirited, independent man who doesn't mind going alone and then recounting everything he's done. Invite him to join you on your adventures, but don't sulk if he doesn't join you — just go, have fun, and share your stories with him.
7. Show Your Independence
Sagittarius guys need lots of space, and they appreciate partners who have lives of their own. Keep your friends and social life. Yes, this man will appreciate you having your own life. He's not jealous or possessive and will love that you're just as independent as he is.
8. Be Happy and Playful
He's a happy dancing soul, so don't rain on his parade by being a Debbie Downer. Keep your conversations happy, hopeful, helpful, and enjoyable.
9. Take an Interest in His Interests
Find out all you can about his interests so you can take part or talk intelligently about them. A Sagittarius guy craves someone who shares his interests, and you'll fascinate him when you do.
10. Enjoy His Sexy Side
He's a fiery, sexy guy, so don't be coy or shy about sex — be playful and enjoy! He'll even appreciate your bravery if you make the first move. Don't expect to be romanced, but enjoy being entertained by his wild sexual antics.
11. Be Patient
A Sagittarius man is quick to fall in love but slow to commit. Love him, have fun with him, and give your heart to him. But be patient, understanding, and loving, and don't push for exclusivity.
12. Be Honest
Be honest and truthful; even if it hurts, tell it like it is! A Sagittarius man is truthful and honest — usually blatantly honest — and he'll expect the same from you.
Keep a Sagittarius Guy Engaged
Keeping a Sagittarius man content and engaged takes fun, playful, loving interaction, intellectual conversations, and spontaneous adventures. A Sagittarius man isn't compatible with everyone. So, if you have your eye on one, evaluate your strengths and see if a fun, social, and globe-trotting life with a high-flyin' Sagittarian guy is really what you're looking for.
